Here is a pray based on James 1:26-27 to help you be distinct as a Christian and do instinctively what Christians do:
Dear Lord, I desire to live before You in a way that stands out for You. Touch my tongue so that my language reflects You. Touch my heart so that my acts of compassion reflects You. Give me wisdom and discernment so that I am not a target to be taken advantage of, but distinctly a Christian ready and willing to lead people to a meaningful relationship with Jesus. I live to love and serve You. In the name of Jesus I pray, amen.
Pastor Brian E Kennedy, Sr.